
Articles
Short pieces on the questions couples bring to me most often – to read at your own pace, alone or together.
- ADHD in relationshipsADHD in everyday couple life – ending the parent–child dynamicHow ADHD strains a relationship, why a parent–child dynamic develops and what both partners can change in concrete terms.


- Constant arguingAlways the same argument – why the pattern holdsWhy the same conflict repeats itself endlessly, the role schemas play, and how to find the point where stepping out becomes possible.


- CommunicationThe first couples therapy session – what to expectWhat happens in the first session of couples therapy, how long it takes, what to bring and what most couples worry about unnecessarily.


- CommunicationMy partner refuses couples therapy – what now?What you can do when your partner refuses couples therapy, and why starting alone often achieves more than expected.


- Trust & betrayalRebuilding trust when old wounds refuse to fadeWhy trust does not return through explanations, what helps with setbacks, and why control achieves the opposite of what it is meant to.


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